Comments on: Every Parent's Worst Nightmare http://blog.drphil.com/2009/11/11/the-great-parental-nightmare/ Dr. Phil- Start A Change Reaction Sun, 19 May 2013 02:33:16 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8 hourly 1 By: Stephen Watkins http://blog.drphil.com/2009/11/11/the-great-parental-nightmare/comment-page-2/#comment-20576 Stephen Watkins Wed, 16 Feb 2011 03:15:01 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=1794#comment-20576 WATKINS MISSING CHILDREN: I have written into your show many times and posted on your show's blog. I never seem to get a response. I know from watching you that you read all you comments. Please respond to this one. I have an incredible story to share. My story was just released for the first time on the News Wire 2 hours ago. It had been reported locally but no one knew about this case. It's been 23-months since I have seen my sons, Alexander & Christopher Watkins, when they were abducted into the United States and then Europe on March 6th, 2009. I have NOT stopped searching. Actually, I have been so proactive that I was interview last week by the US State Department to help them understand how to use social networking to help find missing children / people. I also provide some advice to the Toronto Police Services as they were the FIRST in the world to launch a social media department to find missing children online last April 2010. I know my sons were were going to be abduction and I did everything in ADVANCE to stop it. I also contacted and worked with a missing child organization in advance. In the end, the family courts and poor security at our boarders was the reason they escaped. I have written letters to the Prime Minister which is posted on CNN iREPORTS for all to see. The Prime minister office responded within 2 days and just before the meeting with the US President on February 4th. I also have much information posted online. Just Google Watkins Missing Children. My ex-wife Edyta Ustaszewski Watkins, assisted by her father, who did not have custody, left Canada and traveled around the world with her Canadian Passport which was "Canceled" 42-days by the Canadian Government prior to my sons abduction. This has been confirmed in writing by two sources. It has been frustrating getting this news out as media and people are having a hard time believing that this can happen. There are NO Exit Strategy controls in North America. My sons well documented International Child Abduction has shown a major border security problem which I did not anticipate nor would anyone else for that matter. I am fighting to locate my sons in Canada's worst International Child Abduction as per reported by the RCMP on MAy 25th, 2010. My ex-wife is also on Canada's Most Wanted list which you can see online through the RCMP. You help in airing my story would not only help locate my sons but also make people aware that in the United States and in Canada, there their needs to be better border security controls. Currently you can EXIT your country and enter another as NO one is electronically scanning your passport. I believe in both the US and in Canada, your passport can be Canceled / Revoked if you have a criminal conviction or if you do not pay your child support and it exceeds $10,000. This is what happened to my ex-wife. She just packed up her bags, took the children on her weekend access and got driven over the boarder to the US by her father then She then flew with my sons to Germany. What's the point to issue Passports if you can LEAVE your country and enter another one. The US and Canadian border security say the verify passports. They are NOT telling the public that they are ONLY visually seeing if your picture matches and you passport is current. There is NO electronic checks to see if passports are canceled. Your help Dr. Phil to air my sons story will help find them and to put pressure on our governments to correct border procedures. Thank you so much! STEPHEN WATKINS (I am also registered on your show for contact information) WATKINS MISSING CHILDREN: I have written into your show many times and posted on your show’s blog. I never seem to get a response. I know from watching you that you read all you comments. Please respond to this one. I have an incredible story to share. My story was just released for the first time on the News Wire 2 hours ago. It had been reported locally but no one knew about this case. It’s been 23-months since I have seen my sons, Alexander & Christopher Watkins, when they were abducted into the United States and then Europe on March 6th, 2009. I have NOT stopped searching. Actually, I have been so proactive that I was interview last week by the US State Department to help them understand how to use social networking to help find missing children / people. I also provide some advice to the Toronto Police Services as they were the FIRST in the world to launch a social media department to find missing children online last April 2010. I know my sons were were going to be abduction and I did everything in ADVANCE to stop it. I also contacted and worked with a missing child organization in advance. In the end, the family courts and poor security at our boarders was the reason they escaped. I have written letters to the Prime Minister which is posted on CNN iREPORTS for all to see. The Prime minister office responded within 2 days and just before the meeting with the US President on February 4th. I also have much information posted online. Just Google Watkins Missing Children. My ex-wife Edyta Ustaszewski Watkins, assisted by her father, who did not have custody, left Canada and traveled around the world with her Canadian Passport which was “Canceled” 42-days by the Canadian Government prior to my sons abduction. This has been confirmed in writing by two sources. It has been frustrating getting this news out as media and people are having a hard time believing that this can happen. There are NO Exit Strategy controls in North America. My sons well documented International Child Abduction has shown a major border security problem which I did not anticipate nor would anyone else for that matter. I am fighting to locate my sons in Canada’s worst International Child Abduction as per reported by the RCMP on MAy 25th, 2010. My ex-wife is also on Canada’s Most Wanted list which you can see online through the RCMP. You help in airing my story would not only help locate my sons but also make people aware that in the United States and in Canada, there their needs to be better border security controls. Currently you can EXIT your country and enter another as NO one is electronically scanning your passport. I believe in both the US and in Canada, your passport can be Canceled / Revoked if you have a criminal conviction or if you do not pay your child support and it exceeds $10,000. This is what happened to my ex-wife. She just packed up her bags, took the children on her weekend access and got driven over the boarder to the US by her father then She then flew with my sons to Germany. What’s the point to issue Passports if you can LEAVE your country and enter another one. The US and Canadian border security say the verify passports. They are NOT telling the public that they are ONLY visually seeing if your picture matches and you passport is current. There is NO electronic checks to see if passports are canceled. Your help Dr. Phil to air my sons story will help find them and to put pressure on our governments to correct border procedures. Thank you so much!
STEPHEN WATKINS
(I am also registered on your show for contact information)

]]> By: Warner http://blog.drphil.com/2009/11/11/the-great-parental-nightmare/comment-page-2/#comment-15414 Warner Thu, 10 Jun 2010 14:27:08 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=1794#comment-15414 This is one of the most powerful discussions I ever studied today, I'm talking about this component of your article "<i>... there that want to be sure they are vigilant in protecting their own children. The strength and heart of ...</i>" this is it, you just smashed it down buddy. This is one of the most powerful discussions I ever studied today, I’m talking about this component of your article “… there that want to be sure they are vigilant in protecting their own children. The strength and heart of …” this is it, you just smashed it down buddy.

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]]> By: paula http://blog.drphil.com/2009/11/11/the-great-parental-nightmare/comment-page-2/#comment-10959 paula Tue, 23 Feb 2010 22:13:39 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=1794#comment-10959 shelly may be wrong but she may be right . she feels shes protecting those babies .she carried them around for 9months protecting them and keeping them safe. hearing what she heard in court, wouldn't you feel it would be heavy on her mind that, what if she ran from voices while driving with the babies in the car and had a fatal accident. think about that before you judge shelly. shelly may be wrong but she may be right . she feels shes protecting those babies .she carried them around for 9months protecting them and keeping them safe. hearing what she heard in court, wouldn’t you feel it would be heavy on her mind that, what if she ran from voices while driving with the babies in the car and had a fatal accident. think about that before you judge shelly.

]]> By: Jenny http://blog.drphil.com/2009/11/11/the-great-parental-nightmare/comment-page-2/#comment-10400 Jenny Sun, 07 Feb 2010 11:32:51 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=1794#comment-10400 What is the name of the book from Thursdays. (Parent's worst nightmare?) regards Jenny What is the name of the book from Thursdays. (Parent’s worst nightmare?)
regards
Jenny

]]> By: Tracey http://blog.drphil.com/2009/11/11/the-great-parental-nightmare/comment-page-2/#comment-10022 Tracey Fri, 29 Jan 2010 21:52:43 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=1794#comment-10022 A big hello from, "Down Under".!My family and I find your show a wonderful teaching tool and very found it to be very imformative and we have implimented some of your advice to our own daily lives. Keep up the fantastic work in helping to educate us all! A big hello from, “Down Under”.!My family and I find your show a wonderful teaching tool and very found it to be very imformative and we have implimented some of your advice to our own daily lives. Keep up the fantastic work in helping to educate us all!

]]> By: Rosemary Sherman http://blog.drphil.com/2009/11/11/the-great-parental-nightmare/comment-page-2/#comment-6972 Rosemary Sherman Sat, 28 Nov 2009 22:42:52 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=1794#comment-6972 Dr. Phil, I was abducted in 1956 when I was 13 years old, had his child when I was fourteen. My son never knew he was a product of a child stealing pedafile, whom by the way, went to prison for only TWO YEARS. I was away for one year and three months. Most of the first few months he locked me in the trunk of his car. My family has been after me for many years to write a book. I'm now at a place where that is exactly what I want to do. I have so much I can say that may be helpful to other young girls and boys as well as their parents. I've never written a book and would like some expert advise from you. There is so much to say that I may have to write two books. I overheard a comment by "well meaning folks" saying "who would want to adopt the little bastard who is a product of rape"... I kept my son, I loved him dearly and only thought of him as mine and nobody elses'. My son was murdered in 1998. The emptyness in my heart will stay forever. I did set everything aside for a while as I have a daughter who is married to a wonderful man and they have a beautiful son, age 2. Life is for the living and that is why I set my son's case aside for a while in order to give my daughter my attention, it wouldn't have been fair to her to have my head into my sons death when she is in essence saying what about me? And, to not cheat myself out of so much happiness derived from my daughter and her family. But, now I want to write my book/books. My life has been pretty traumatic at times, I've looked inside myself for the courage and strength to rise above the torn family of my youth in order to be a good mother and grandmother. Hope to hear from you one day soon. I listed the website where you can look up my son's case. Please don't print the website. Dr. Phil,
I was abducted in 1956 when I was 13 years old, had his child when I was
fourteen. My son never knew he was a product of a child stealing pedafile, whom by the way, went to prison for only TWO YEARS.

I was away for one year and three months. Most of the first few months he locked me in the trunk of his car.
My family has been after me for many years to write a book. I’m now at a place where that is exactly what I want to do. I have so much I can say that may be helpful to other young girls and boys as well as their parents. I’ve never written a book and would like some expert advise from you. There is so much to say that I may have to write two books. I overheard a comment by “well meaning folks” saying “who would want to adopt the little bastard who is a product of rape”… I kept my son, I loved him dearly and only thought of him as mine and nobody elses’. My son was murdered in 1998. The emptyness in my heart will stay forever. I did set everything aside for a while as I have a daughter who is married to a wonderful man and they have a beautiful son, age 2. Life is for the living and that is why I set my son’s case aside for a while in order to give my daughter my attention, it wouldn’t have been fair to her to have my head into my sons death when she is in essence saying what about me? And, to not cheat myself out of so much happiness derived from my daughter and her family.
But, now I want to write my book/books. My life has been pretty traumatic at times, I’ve looked inside myself for the courage and strength to rise above the torn family of my youth in order to be a good mother and grandmother. Hope to hear from you one day soon.
I listed the website where you can look up my son’s case. Please don’t print the website.

]]> By: Carol http://blog.drphil.com/2009/11/11/the-great-parental-nightmare/comment-page-2/#comment-6957 Carol Fri, 27 Nov 2009 23:06:32 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=1794#comment-6957 I truly understand how you feel on this matter. My greatest fear while my children were growing up was their disappearance through abduction. My heart hurts for parents, grandparents, siblings of missing children. Having a loved one missing is so terrible and can't imagine survivng or coping with it. I truly understand how you feel on this matter. My greatest fear while my children were growing up was their disappearance through abduction. My heart hurts for parents, grandparents, siblings of missing children. Having a loved one missing is so terrible and can’t imagine survivng or coping with it.

]]> By: Nancy Starnino http://blog.drphil.com/2009/11/11/the-great-parental-nightmare/comment-page-2/#comment-6884 Nancy Starnino Tue, 24 Nov 2009 23:14:38 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=1794#comment-6884 Dr. Phil, Regarding today's show (Nov. 24th) I may have not gotten the whole story right, but my conclusion is that the reason the boy poops in his underwear is because HE DOES NOT WANT TO GO TO PRESCHOOL. When his mother asked him, he said "no" so that's why he keeps pooping!!! I would love to have your comments.Thanks. (Note: I don't have children of my own) Dr. Phil,
Regarding today’s show (Nov. 24th) I may have not gotten the whole story right, but my conclusion is that the reason the boy poops in his underwear is because HE DOES NOT WANT TO GO TO PRESCHOOL. When his mother asked him, he said “no” so that’s why he keeps pooping!!! I would love to have your comments.Thanks.
(Note: I don’t have children of my own)

]]> By: Holly Mclemore http://blog.drphil.com/2009/11/11/the-great-parental-nightmare/comment-page-2/#comment-6879 Holly Mclemore Tue, 24 Nov 2009 19:39:24 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=1794#comment-6879 Dear Dr. Phil, I am writing to you concerning a woman by the name of Raye Dawn who was wrongfully convicted and sentenced to 27 yrs because "she should have known". Raye Dawn's 2yr old daughter Kelsey who was killed by her step father Michael on oct 11th 2005 inOklahoma while Raye Dawn was gone to pick up his daughter from school. This story involves a paternal grandmother named Kathie who launched a huge hate campaign against Raye Dawn who was married at one time to her son Lance's biological father. Raye Dawn could have not said it any better "what does a child molester and child killer look like?" Raye Dawn loved Kelsey very much and would have never let anyone harm her. This was a high profile case that involves money, hate and lies that took place in 2007 and is still being Im asking that you look into this story. and check it out for your self. I think this would make an interesting story to put on your show, Im not saying everyone has to agree but please just take a minute to look into Rayes story thank you very much Dear Dr. Phil, I am writing to you concerning a woman by the name of Raye Dawn who was wrongfully convicted and sentenced to 27 yrs because “she should have known”. Raye Dawn’s 2yr old daughter Kelsey who was killed by her step father Michael on oct 11th 2005 inOklahoma while Raye Dawn was gone to pick up his daughter from school. This story involves a paternal grandmother named Kathie who launched a huge hate campaign against Raye Dawn who was married at one time to her son Lance’s biological father. Raye Dawn could have not said it any better “what does a child molester and child killer look like?” Raye Dawn loved Kelsey very much and would have never let anyone harm her.
This was a high profile case that involves money, hate and lies that took place in 2007 and is still being Im asking that you look into this story. and check it out for your self. I think this would make an interesting story to put on your show, Im not saying everyone has to agree but please just take a minute to look into Rayes story thank you very much

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