I admit it.

I should listen to adults more. I feel so violated. We were at the movies and we did in the back of his friends truck. I feel soo stupid. I would like to put something on here though.

** Any teenager reading this. Just dont have sex. It may make you feel good. It may make you feel better about yourself. It may make you feel older. It may make you feel FREE. But, there are alot of consequences of having sex. HPV, STD. Name calling. PREGNANCY. Take it from me. You may think it is cool that your pregnate at first, but when you have that baby. Dang, you will sure miss being a normal teenager again. It absolutly Sucks being a mom. I can go hang with my friends anymore. I cant go to any football, basketball or baseball games anymore. I cant go to the pool anymore. I go to school. Go to work. Watch my kid. It sucks. Dont be a hoe like me and just say no. Oh and another consequence is IM FAT! Try going from a size 2-3 to a 14. It sucks. Thats another reason i dont go to the pool. So just say no… (;

I loved it. But, we need to find another way to teach children that abstinence is freedom. Obviously, the long lectures and telling them that if they do have sex that they need to where a condom. That just doesnt work. They still dont seem to listen. For example; A child at my daughters school had sex she was bragging about it until she realized she was pregnanate. Now i see a problem with that. She was BRAGGING about having sex. We want to prevent that. I think that we should still have the little lectures about not having sex and the outcomes of having sex. But i also think that children shouldnt read or watch sexual things. That is what triggers their hormones right. And have the ladies dress less sexy like.

All in All, just stop teen pregnancy!!

As I perceive it, here are the three biggest negative consequences of sex with partners:

1. Unwanted pregnancy
2. Incurable or fatal sexually transmitted diseases
3. Possible violations of age of consent laws, which could mean prison sentences

Focusing on unwanted pregnancy for now, this consequence alone has a list of at least ten unwanted questions and unpleasant complications that no teenage girl wants in her life:

1. Deciding whether to abort or continue the pregnancy
2. Deciding whether to keep the baby or have the baby adopted
3. Deciding whether she or her parents will raise the baby if she decides to be a teen mom
4. Worry that her parents might throw her out of her home if she gets pregnant
5. Having to decide if she will drop out of school, get a job and cope with teen motherhood
6. Having to handle the endless chores and very HARD WORK of being a teen mom
7. Having to give up all the fun school activities and other things she now enjoys
8. Having to accept the possibility of poor-quality jobs as a result of inadequate education
9. Having to accept the possibility of giving up her dreams of going into college and post-graduate study
10. Having to accept the possibility of a far lower standard of living due to an inadequate education

All of these negative consequences, and the complications that arise from each, can all be avoided when teenagers make it a priority to AVOID partnered sexual activity while in middle school, high school, and all other educational levels afterward.

I believe that a good, comprehensive sex ed program is also important for teens to get all the facts. Then again, I also believe that by practicing abstinence while at all educational levels, teenage girls and guys get all the benefits of the best education they can obtain, good-quality employment after their education is completed, and a the chance of a high standard of living as well. And if anyone thinks a short message that promotes the positives of teen abstinence would help, here’s one:

Abstinence = FREEDOM
All consequences avoided

Before posting someones life as an interesting tidbit to hem and haw over maybe next time get your facts straight. You are a medical professional and as such you should hold yourself to a higher standard than Joe Average Blogger.

What I’d like to know is since when is it ‘all the girl’s fault’ for becoming pregnant? Last time I checked there was no such thing as immaculate conception…Unfortunately there are too many men ducking out on their responsibilities in the matter. Society seems to think that the woman is at fault for becoming pregnant, and then if the fathering male throws some money (child support) at her, well then it’s all well and justified on his part. I call bullsh!t on that.

Perhaps we as a society ought to come down a bit hasher…perhaps if a male who ‘gets a girl pregnant’ and then fails to uphold responsibility is castrated, maybe these males would think twice before acting upon their impulses. After all, you don’t want one at a time you think you’re responsible for sex yet unwilling to deal with consequences, so why give them the chance for another? Granted, women may not always want that male around or necessarily involved in the child’s life, but I’m still ironing out the details of my plan, as it were.