Comments on: What Should We Do about Child Pornography? http://blog.drphil.com/2010/05/24/what-should-we-do-about-child-pornography/ Dr. Phil- Start A Change Reaction Tue, 18 Jun 2013 21:20:33 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8 hourly 1 By: Dahman http://blog.drphil.com/2010/05/24/what-should-we-do-about-child-pornography/comment-page-2/#comment-124056 Dahman Tue, 25 Sep 2012 14:57:06 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=2555#comment-124056 , The elephant in the room ceinratly can't be ignored. This elephant sized burden I've carried with me nearly ruined my marriage. Week 1 of this service Jesus spoke to me and I gave it all to Him, confessed to my wife the lust I had been living in (the hardest thing I've ever had to do) and praise God I have been forgiven by Him and by her! Our marriage will survive, the burden has been lifted, our love has been renewed, we are praying together and we just lift up our marriage to Him. We are in the process of ridding our home of all the movies, books, and other trash that promotes the filth that Satan has used to tempt me and to come between us. Thank you Jesus for Brand New Church and for giving Shannon the courage and desire to speak Your truths. on 15 February 2009 / 3:02 PM , The elephant in the room ceinratly can’t be ignored. This elephant sized burden I’ve carried with me nearly ruined my marriage. Week 1 of this service Jesus spoke to me and I gave it all to Him, confessed to my wife the lust I had been living in (the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do) and praise God I have been forgiven by Him and by her! Our marriage will survive, the burden has been lifted, our love has been renewed, we are praying together and we just lift up our marriage to Him. We are in the process of ridding our home of all the movies, books, and other trash that promotes the filth that Satan has used to tempt me and to come between us. Thank you Jesus for Brand New Church and for giving Shannon the courage and desire to speak Your truths. on 15 February 2009 / 3:02 PM

]]> By: Buffee http://blog.drphil.com/2010/05/24/what-should-we-do-about-child-pornography/comment-page-2/#comment-24930 Buffee Thu, 11 Aug 2011 14:55:18 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=2555#comment-24930 Unbelievable how well-wrtiten and informative this was. Unbelievable how well-wrtiten and informative this was.

]]> By: X http://blog.drphil.com/2010/05/24/what-should-we-do-about-child-pornography/comment-page-2/#comment-18705 X Thu, 11 Nov 2010 14:30:38 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=2555#comment-18705 I THINK WE ARE OBLIGATED TO APPLY THE CHILD PROTECTION LAWS AND MENTAL HEALTH LAWS TO THESE SITUATIONS AND THROW THE BOOK AT THEM. IT IS TIME WE BECAME SENSABLE ABOUT THE FREEDOM OF SPEECH LAWS, AND IF THAT MEANS WE MAKE IT ILLEGAL TO NOT PROTECT CHILDREN , AS WE ARE OBLIGATED TO , THEN WE MUST DO THAT. SAME WOULD GO FOR VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN, AND THE COUNSEL AND PROMOTION OF SUICIDE TO AN 'AT RISK ' PERSON. THERE ARE LAWS THAT ARE SUPPOSE TO PROTECT CHILDREN, WHY ARE WE NOT ENFORCING THEM. I SAY GET RID OF JUDGES LIKE THAT , WHO HAVE NO JUDGEMENT. I AM SURE HE WOULD FIGURE OUT A WAY TO STOP SOMEONE TEACHING AND ADVOCATING THE ANNILATION OF THE JEWS, THAT WHOLE EXPERIENCE HE IS CLAIMING TO HAVE LEARNED FROM? I THINK WE ARE OBLIGATED TO APPLY THE CHILD PROTECTION LAWS AND MENTAL HEALTH LAWS TO THESE SITUATIONS AND THROW THE BOOK AT THEM.
IT IS TIME WE BECAME SENSABLE ABOUT THE FREEDOM OF SPEECH LAWS, AND IF THAT MEANS WE MAKE IT ILLEGAL TO NOT PROTECT CHILDREN , AS WE ARE OBLIGATED TO , THEN WE MUST DO THAT.
SAME WOULD GO FOR VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN, AND THE COUNSEL AND PROMOTION OF SUICIDE TO AN ‘AT RISK ‘ PERSON.
THERE ARE LAWS THAT ARE SUPPOSE TO PROTECT CHILDREN, WHY ARE WE NOT ENFORCING THEM.
I SAY GET RID OF JUDGES LIKE THAT , WHO HAVE NO JUDGEMENT. I AM SURE HE WOULD FIGURE OUT A WAY TO STOP SOMEONE TEACHING AND ADVOCATING THE ANNILATION OF THE JEWS, THAT WHOLE EXPERIENCE HE IS CLAIMING TO HAVE LEARNED FROM?

]]> By: a g http://blog.drphil.com/2010/05/24/what-should-we-do-about-child-pornography/comment-page-2/#comment-17875 a g Thu, 21 Oct 2010 11:01:13 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=2555#comment-17875 we have a combination of the puritan and the over the top in your face eros in america. the bigger problem is repression and most of organized religion. we are so much into pornography,yet at the same time very much about church driven mores. cracking down on porn[child or otherwise] helps to feed the morbid curiosity. not different from a war on drugs,that has no beginning and no end. we don't get healthy as a society,by attacking symptoms,which is what we are obsessed with doing time and time again. i know this is not a popular view,but i think it need be stated. there is also the real danger of a world of reppresive censorship,that challenges our human rights under the guise of a "morality clause" and that's a slippery slope we don't want to mess with............. we have a combination of the puritan and the over the top in your face eros in america. the bigger problem is repression and most of organized religion. we are so much into pornography,yet at the same time very much about church driven mores. cracking down on porn[child or otherwise] helps to feed the morbid curiosity. not different from a war on drugs,that has no beginning and no end. we don’t get healthy as a society,by attacking symptoms,which is what we are obsessed with doing time and time again. i know this is not a popular view,but i think it need be stated. there is also the real danger of a world of reppresive censorship,that challenges our human rights under the guise of a “morality clause”
and that’s a slippery slope we don’t want to mess with………….

]]> By: Linda Pelletier http://blog.drphil.com/2010/05/24/what-should-we-do-about-child-pornography/comment-page-2/#comment-17847 Linda Pelletier Sat, 16 Oct 2010 20:55:38 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=2555#comment-17847 Dr. Phil I am so sickened by the actions of this Judge that I have to wonder if he may have a problem himself with child porn. I believe that a person who views this type of garbage is just as guilty as the person who films the children. This is all for money and some people would sell their own mother if the price were right. I believe in castration of the people involved..Simple...maybe the sex drive would go away then...what else can be done, because therapy doesn't seem to work, and jail lets them mingle with the same type of people as themselves. Put them in jail for too long and who knows what these people can think up with all those perverted brains in one place...pretty scarry to say the least.. Thank You for letting me vent Linda Pelletier Dr. Phil
I am so sickened by the actions of this Judge that I have to wonder if he may have a problem himself with child porn. I believe that a person who views this type of garbage is just as guilty as the person who films the children. This is all for money and some people would sell their own mother if the price were right. I believe in castration of the people involved..Simple…maybe the sex drive would go away then…what else can be done, because therapy doesn’t seem to work, and jail lets them mingle with the same type of people as themselves. Put them in jail for too long and who knows what these people can think up with all those perverted brains in one place…pretty scarry to say the least..
Thank You for letting me vent
Linda Pelletier

]]> By: Amy http://blog.drphil.com/2010/05/24/what-should-we-do-about-child-pornography/comment-page-2/#comment-17801 Amy Wed, 13 Oct 2010 12:02:01 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=2555#comment-17801 Children should beablw to be children, they should not have to leave their bodies who r they too touch them. For the children out their: You r the sun that shines on the medow where know one can hurt u, be free and run thrugh the grass, laugh, roll and just have fun. You r the angels of the world and PLEASE son't let that monster touch or do anything to u because u do have the right to tell anyone u want. THOUGH: Children fly and be free there fore beauty is on the other side where the sun will warm your little face and then you talk to god or whom you chose, BE FREE LITTLE ONE, BE FREE <3 <3 xox Amy Cameron Children should beablw to be children, they should not have to leave their bodies who r they too touch them. For the children out their: You r the sun that shines on the medow where know one can hurt u, be free and run thrugh the grass, laugh, roll and just have fun. You r the angels of the world and PLEASE son’t let that monster touch or do anything to u because u do have the right to tell anyone u want.

THOUGH: Children fly and be free there fore beauty is on the other side where the sun will warm your little face and then you talk to god or whom you chose, BE FREE LITTLE ONE, BE FREE <3 <3 xox Amy Cameron

]]> By: jojo http://blog.drphil.com/2010/05/24/what-should-we-do-about-child-pornography/comment-page-2/#comment-17716 jojo Fri, 08 Oct 2010 12:54:56 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=2555#comment-17716 Dear Dr. Phil, I tried to contact you few times regarding the same problem, problem that i discovered my ex partner has it and I cannot prove it. I do have 2 babies with him, my ex partner, and I would really need some advice if possible. I will tell you my entire story once I am sure it is you Dr. Phil that I am talking to. Thank you! Dear Dr. Phil, I tried to contact you few times regarding the same problem, problem that i discovered my ex partner has it and I cannot prove it. I do have 2 babies with him, my ex partner, and I would really need some advice if possible. I will tell you my entire story once I am sure it is you Dr. Phil that I am talking to.
Thank you!

]]> By: JBBGirl http://blog.drphil.com/2010/05/24/what-should-we-do-about-child-pornography/comment-page-2/#comment-17594 JBBGirl Wed, 06 Oct 2010 02:27:37 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=2555#comment-17594 This may or may not be on Key. I am strongly against child pornography. What happened to a Co-worker of my father's son was horrendous. He was young and getting out on his own finally.(College age) He had a roommate that lived with him and the room mate decided to quit paying the bills. Trying to be responsible he told his friend, "look, you are gonna have to move out because you aren't paying the bills!" He and his friend shared a computer that belonged to the responsible guy. Out of sheer revenge the "dead beat" room mate downloaded a bunch of child porn on this shared computer and then called the police and said his friend (the responsible one) had all of this on his computer. Needless to say, the responsible kid who did NOT look at that stuff, and did NOT put it on his computer was sentenced to Prison time & forced to register as a sex offender since it was "technically" on his computer. His life has been completely ruined & destroyed by a completely irresponsible, vengeful dead beat (who in my opinion) should have been the one thrown in prison for being the sicko who down loaded this stuff on his roomate's computer. Where is the law that protects this innocent man (or any other innocent person) from being victimized like this? This may or may not be on Key. I am strongly against child pornography. What happened to a Co-worker of my father’s son was horrendous. He was young and getting out on his own finally.(College age) He had a roommate that lived with him and the room mate decided to quit paying the bills. Trying to be responsible he told his friend, “look, you are gonna have to move out because you aren’t paying the bills!” He and his friend shared a computer that belonged to the responsible guy. Out of sheer revenge the “dead beat” room mate downloaded a bunch of child porn on this shared computer and then called the police and said his friend (the responsible one) had all of this on his computer. Needless to say, the responsible kid who did NOT look at that stuff, and did NOT put it on his computer was sentenced to Prison time & forced to register as a sex offender since it was “technically” on his computer. His life has been completely ruined & destroyed by a completely irresponsible, vengeful dead beat (who in my opinion) should have been the one thrown in prison for being the sicko who down loaded this stuff on his roomate’s computer. Where is the law that protects this innocent man (or any other innocent person) from being victimized like this?

]]> By: Ed Hays http://blog.drphil.com/2010/05/24/what-should-we-do-about-child-pornography/comment-page-2/#comment-17567 Ed Hays Sun, 03 Oct 2010 11:11:24 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=2555#comment-17567 I am an old man, 67 years young, and I have worked in a fairly diverse range of jobs and without skipping a beat I have seen more women try to get favored status from fellow workers and mostely from their boss by insinuating sexual favors. Then when it is time to supply those favors the woman will run right to personel and filea sexual harassment. I wonder who is harassing who?? It also aggrivated me to have women get angry if a good looking guy who is married reject their romantic advances. They will try every trick in the book to get even with him for being true to his wife and family. They will also lie to fellow workers and the company just to get even for being rejected. All I hear is how about the bad man chasing the women. Please, give me a break. Reality generally goes in a much different direction than what I see on T.V. and in the news. Political correctness distorts the truth in somany areas and not just the sexual harassment arena. I am still astounded at the number of women, neighbors, friends of the wife, who have gone after me in a very aggressively sexual manner. Their I go again not following the proper line that says that only men are aggressive in this arena. Well I just have to go by what I see and have happen to me and the rest of you can listen to the correct nonsence that comes from ourT.V. hosts and assorted, smarter than life, news commentators. I guess that sexual attraction is just stronger than common sense. I am an old man, 67 years young, and I have worked in a fairly diverse range of jobs and without skipping a beat I have seen more women try to get favored status from fellow workers and mostely from their boss by insinuating sexual favors. Then when it is time to supply those favors the woman will run right to personel and filea sexual harassment. I wonder who is harassing who??
It also aggrivated me to have women get angry if a good looking guy who is married reject their romantic advances. They will try every trick in the book to get even with him for being true to his wife and family. They will also lie to fellow workers and the company just to get even for being rejected. All I hear is how about the bad man chasing the women. Please, give me a break. Reality generally goes in a much different direction than what I see on T.V. and in the news. Political correctness distorts the truth in somany areas and not just the sexual harassment arena.
I am still astounded at the number of women, neighbors, friends of the wife, who have gone after me in a very aggressively sexual manner. Their I go again not following the proper line that says that only men are aggressive in this arena. Well I just have to go by what I see and have happen to me and the rest of you can listen to the correct nonsence that comes from ourT.V. hosts and assorted, smarter than life, news commentators. I guess that sexual attraction is just stronger than common sense.

]]> By: Debi Anderson http://blog.drphil.com/2010/05/24/what-should-we-do-about-child-pornography/comment-page-2/#comment-17559 Debi Anderson Sat, 02 Oct 2010 12:29:28 +0000 http://blog.drphil.com/?p=2555#comment-17559 I agree that child abusers/predators should be punished for their crimes, but there is a " witch hunt" going on in our society now that is out to convict any man that "touches" a female of a sex crime. Do you know that there is a law that allows the police to arrest and charge you with child molesting even if you changed the diaper on your baby girl??Changing the diaper requires you to possibly "touch" her genitals. I know of a good man that was raising all 5 of his kids alone, that jokingly smacked his daughters behind while she was getting on the bus for school and found himself in jail for a sex crime.His family was devastated. Go to "falsely accused child molestors" and you'll see THOUSANDS that are in jail or prison for something they DIDN'T do!! This crime doesn't require ANY evidence !! Just let someone like a vengeful wife or ex accuse you of it and you will be sitting in a cell. You aren't innocent until PROVEN guilty, you are GUILTY until proven innocent, and if you can't afford $50,000 for a defense, youre going to prison. Someone stop this madness! Punish the guilty, but just like in murder cases, each and every case is different and should be evaluated that way. Someone that preys on kids and admits or is proven he can't stop, shouldn't be released,ever, but there are far too many in prison that AREN'T guilty and are paying the same price as the ones that are.This isn't justice. This is wrong. I agree that child abusers/predators should be punished for their crimes, but there is a ” witch hunt” going on in our society now that is out to convict any man that “touches” a female of a sex crime. Do you know that there is a law that allows the police to arrest and charge you with child molesting even if you changed the diaper on your baby girl??Changing the diaper requires you to possibly “touch” her genitals. I know of a good man that was raising all 5 of his kids alone, that jokingly smacked his daughters behind while she was getting on the bus for school and found himself in jail for a sex crime.His family was devastated. Go to “falsely accused child molestors” and you’ll see THOUSANDS that are in jail or prison for something they DIDN’T do!! This crime doesn’t require ANY evidence !! Just let someone like a vengeful wife or ex accuse you of it and you will be sitting in a cell. You aren’t innocent until PROVEN guilty, you are GUILTY until proven innocent, and if you can’t afford $50,000 for a defense, youre going to prison. Someone stop this madness! Punish the guilty, but just like in murder cases, each and every case is different and should be evaluated that way. Someone that preys on kids and admits or is proven he can’t stop, shouldn’t be released,ever, but there are far too many in prison that AREN’T guilty and are paying the same price as the ones that are.This isn’t justice. This is wrong.

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